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Dec
24
My mother and I traveled through the Middle East and South East Asia while we shopped all over in order to prepare for my brother’s upcoming wedding in January 2010.
Our shopping list included:
-the wedding sari– check
-saris for the bridal trousseau– check
-bridal jewelry–check
-items for decor–check
We had managed to remember every little item needed for a fabulous Bangladeshi Muslim wedding…minus one important factor–the rakhis! We almost became frantic at the thought that we had forgotten such a crucial aspect.
The wedding rakhi is a bracelet that is put on by the mother-in-law of each respective bride and groom during their Holud ceremony. It is symbolic of the upcoming union of the bride and groom and is meant to be kept on until the day of the wedding (i.e. until the nikkah/akth).
When realizing we had forgotten to purchase rakhis–we resorted to our brilliant plan–why not make our own?! My mom and I ventured into our favorite shopping center–the craft store and bought everything we needed to make our DIY rakhis!
We bought cardstock that was flexible so it would be able to be tied around the wrist, rhinestones, and beads to ensure that our rakhis would look legitimate. Also, we used fabric paint to inscribe “Allah” on the rakhis as they symbolize a religious union of two individuals.
And viola! This is what our final product looked like:

DIY Rakhi

DIY Rakhi
For more information on Bangladeshi wedding customs, click here.
Dec
17

Glass bangles (churis) are a symbol of femininity all over South Asia. There’s been a tradition of giving out ’churis’ as wedding favors to all female guests, but that trend has been dying down over the last few years. So, here’s a quick and pretty centerpiece idea; buy some pretty but cost-efficient bangles and put them on a rack or in pretty baskets during your mehndi/henna/holud event. It will add a cutesy tone to your event decor and guests can also take them home as wedding favors at the end of the night!
Here’s a list of sites to go to for cheap but pretty glass bangles;
http://www.pardesifashions.com/Jewelry/BangleGalleryG1.aspx
http://www.shopbeachcombers.com/storefrontprofiles/deluxeSFshop.aspx?sid=1&sfid=39600&c=630778
http://www.desistore.com/bangles.html
http://www.kkbangles.com/index.php


