Planning the wedding of your dreams in this economic climate is definitely not an easy feat. With people getting laid off left and right, companies shutting down and the national unemployment rate rising at an alarming pace, it almost seems silly to spend insane amounts of money on the perfect centerpieces or that gorgeous multi-layered cake. But, fear not—here are a few insider secrets to help you out.

Make use of the people you know.
Chances are that most of your family and friends have some skill or talent that can be useful for your wedding. If a friend sells a wedding service, ask him if he is willing to charge you cost price. Have a DJ friend?—he/she’ll definitely give you a cheap rate. Of course, free is even better (but make sure to tip well or get your friend a nice thank you gift). If your sister or cousin is great at makeup, enlist her for some of your wedding events, and save the professional for the main wedding/reception day.  Just don’t be afraid to ask—even friends of friends might be willing to help!

Outsource.
South Asian brides definitely know that things like wedding favors and invitations are a lot cheaper in the motherland, but it isn’t always possible for all brides to shop there. Scour the web for Indian vendors and sellers based in South Asian countries (i.e., invitations, favors)—even with shipping, it usually ends up being a lot cheaper.

Tip: Ask around for recommendations or scour blogs (like this one!). Some non-American vendors can be sketchy.

Trade up.
Let go of something that isn’t as important in order to splurge on something that will truly make your wedding memorable. Get a smaller cake (all those ladoos are enough sweets, anyway!) and put that money towards your dream photographer.  Figure out what you’re willing to forfeit.

Flex those creative muscles.
Your wedding should reflect your personality and your unique sense of style, so figure out how you can be frugal yet imaginative at the same time. For example, instead of wedding favors, have a raffle! It’s creative, fun and a lot cheaper than buying favors for everyone.

Use what you already have.
Maybe you want a horse and carriage; and your fiancé wants a stretch limousine. But, your cousin has a cool Mercedes that is the envy of everyone in the familyhttp://weddings.divanee.com/2011/08/10/new-glam-styles-by-shoe-designer-aruna-seth/ask him if you can use his car and he’ll probably be more than happy to lend you his wheels. Why pay when you could settle for something just as great—for free?

Get full quotes on everything.
Taxes and gratuity are a not-so-pleasant surprise, so make sure you ask each of your vendors the full price for their services—including these two often hidden fees. Don’t let any of your vendors get away with adding on a hefty tax and/or tip, instead—try to negotiate it all at once.

DIY, DIY, DIY!
If you’re lucky enough to be great at arts and crafts, put it to use!  Not all of us are that creative—but you might have a bridesmaid or family member who is.

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